The Dominator tries to become number one by force, and the Commander leads people to reach a goal. Both want the highest position, but there is only one.
When two strong-willed people want the same position, a partnership soon turns into a rivalry. What follows is an honest account of what brings the two into conflict, and under what conditions they can still become a strong alliance.
The two see at a glance that the other is strong. Having always gone ahead alone among weaker people, both feel the thrill of finally meeting an equal.
The Dominator is drawn to the drive of the Commander, who moves to reach a goal, and the Commander is, for a while, attracted to the Dominator's unhesitating force.
The deepest conflict between them is over power. Because both want to be number one, they are tense from the moment they start working together over who will have the final say.
They also want power for different reasons. The Commander often takes a purpose or legitimacy as their cause, and the Dominator uses even that cause as a means. When the Dominator freely breaks the principles the Commander wants to uphold, the two can no longer trust each other.
The two cooperate when they have a common enemy, but once the enemy is gone, they soon become wary of each other. The Dominator cannot keep an ally as a comrade to the end and eventually tries to remove the strong person beside them.
When the Commander senses this, they start defending themselves first, and seeing the Commander defend themselves, the Dominator grows more suspicious. The two keep repeating cooperation followed by holding each other in check.
Paradoxically, if the two stop fighting over rank and look in the same direction, they become a strong alliance that rarely breaks. When the direction the Commander sets is added to the Dominator's force, the two overcome any difficulty together.
The two also see themselves most honestly by looking at each other. Looking at the Dominator, the Commander realizes that they too have a desire to dominate, and asks themselves again how to use that desire for what is right. It is a rare moment when competing leads to looking back at oneself.
Because the two want the same position, they keep repeating alliance and betrayal. They keep cooperating only when authority is divided by a system.
Because both want to be number one, it is hard for them to be in one organization together. They can be together when their areas are clearly divided, or when one of them willingly becomes second in command for a larger purpose.
In a crisis, the two show formidable drive together, but once the crisis is over, they soon compete against each other. They must keep setting new shared goals.
The two stay tense for a long time over who is better. Only when they stop comparing and acknowledge each other's ways can they keep their affection as siblings.
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